What Are You Thankful For?

Thanksgiving Day. All across the United States friends and families will join together. Many will eat a traditional meal of turkey, dressing, sweet potatoes and pumpkin pie. Actually more than a few will overeat of this fare. Throughout the nation people will feel a greater sense of thankfulness. They will express it more readily on Thanksgiving Day.

Often this sense of thankfulness is vague and undefined. Somehow, many people just have and awareness of gratefulness at this time of year without truly considering the multitudes of reasons to be thankful. Even as we begin to think about the many things for which we are grateful, it can be easy to forget just who we are thanking. Gratefulness is a wonderful feeling. For it to be profitable though, it must turn from a feeling to an action. We must give thanks to whom it is do.

True thankfulness is not vague.  There are specifics. We must name our blessings and acknowledge that all good comes from God. “Every good gift and every perfect (free, large, full) gift is from above; it comes down from the Father of all [that gives] light, in [the shining of] Whom there can be no variation [rising or setting] or shadow cast by His turning [as in an eclipse].” (James 1:17 AMP)  As we take the time to think about these gifts we will not only feel thankful but grow in excitement to give that thanks to our Creator who has blessed us with all things.

There are many, many reasons to be grateful to the Lord. I believe these reasons fall into three categories. The first is that we are grateful to God for who He is. “Now therefore, our God, we thank You and praise Your glorious name and those attributes which that name denotes.” (1 Chronicles 29:13AMP)  When we give thanks for God's name we are giving thanks for all that that wonderful name entails. God's name is His character. There are so many names the Lord is called by in Scripture. Each denote an aspect of Who He is. And each one of them has a multitude of reasons for us to be thankful.

The second category of reasons to be grateful to the Almighty is for the things that He has done. King David gave thanks for these often.  “I will praise You, O Lord, with my whole heart; I will show forth (recount and tell aloud) all Your marvelous works and wonderful deeds!”    (Psalm 9:1 AMP)   Marvelous and wonderful only begin to describe all that the Lord has done in our lives. Amazing, faithful and true also come to mind.

A third category of reasons to be thankful to the Lord is for the amazing gift He has given to us. Jesus died and rose again to give the greatest gift of salvation to all who would believe in Him. “Now thanks be to God for His Gift, [precious] beyond telling [His indescribable, inexpressible, free Gift]!” (2 Corinthians 9:15 AMP) What God’s love has provided for us goes beyond words. From this ultimate gift of eternal life to the littlest blessing of each day, God loves us in ways that are more than we can believe.

Thank You, Heavenly Father! Thank You, Jesus Christ! Thank You, Holy Spirit! Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!

So each and every day, remember who you are giving you your thanks to. Remember His mighty deeds and amazing gifts by itemizing them. You may find you become thankful just for being thankful.

Before the Beauty Shines

If you could see my den right now, you would wonder what was going on. Actually I’m quite happy you can’t see my den right now. As I write this, I am in the process of putting together my Christmas village for this season. It will be beautiful once the buildings, park and train station/tracks are all set in place and lit up. Right now is quite a different story. There are boxes and tables and long cords with burned out bulbs that are in the process of being changed. Disarray is the best adjective for what will soon be a beautiful village.

Do you ever feel like your life is quite a bit like this village? Inside we may know that there are gifts and talents that God can use to shine to a hurting world. At this stage we often wonder if we will ever be ready to be used by God. We can see the progress that He has made in developing our character. Then we take another look and mostly see just how much farther we have to go. We may remember beauty from the past, but now all we see how much more work will be needed in the future.

The fruit of the Spirit is continually being developed and matured in our lives. We may have maintained peace even when circumstances have been unpleasant. Then seemingly out of nowhere something comes into our lives and our reaction is anything but peaceful. It is the time that the light bulb of peace must be replaced so that we can continue to shine. This can be true in any of the characteristics in which we are growing to make us more like Jesus Christ. At times our string of godly character may have more light bulbs in need of replacement than those that are shining. We simply confess our weakness. “If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness [everything not in conformity to His will in purpose, thought, and action].” (1 John 1:9 AMP) He will place a fresh light in the newly cleansed area of our lives.

There also are those gifts and talents that need to be unpacked before they can be set out. The unpacking process requires taking away all the excess packing materials. Little by little and piece by piece God works at peeling away all that must be stripped off so that we can shine with the love of Jesus. Selfishness, pride, insecurity, ulterior motives and many other negative character traits can hide the beauty of the gifts that are within each of us. We may catch a glimpse of these gifts, just as we can see a picture of the building within each box. But the true beauty of the gift can only shine through after we allow God to peel away all that does not belong in our hearts. “…let us strip off and throw aside every encumbrance (unnecessary weight) and that sin which so readily (deftly and cleverly) clings to and entangles us…” (Hebrews 12:1 AMP) Once the excess has been removed, our true gifts and talents can be expressed.

The scene that is coming will be beautiful. I am excited to pull out all of the treasures. I do not mind replacing all the burned out lights. And I look forward to placing each piece exactly where I choose to make this village the most beautiful of all. It is exciting to know that Almighty God takes far more pleasure in forming us to be and placing us exactly where He desires. The care He places in each one of us is far beyond our imagination. He is creating something beautiful in each of us. And He causes us to shine brightly. Jesus stated, “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” (Matthew 5:14AMP)

Look past the disarray you may see in your life. Allow God to do the unpacking, put you together and fix the broken lights in your life. Then many will see you shining and marvel at the beauty of the love of God.

Calm Down!

Calm down! Who has not heard these words? When everything seems to be going wrong and one is very upset he or she may hear the command to "calm down" from a companion who has the voice of reason in that moment. When something wonderful happens and one s extremely excited the command to "calm down!" may come again. Over-the-top emotion, whether positive or negative, may require a time of calm. 

If you are apparent, you have probably spoken these words as well. Children are extremely susceptible to large emotional mood swings. Add to that the excessive energy that most little ones have and you come up with the perfect conditions for an extremely loud “CALM DOWN!!!” From temper tantrums to overly exuberant celebrations, the swings can be excessive. 

Throughout the Psalms we are often told to calm down. The word is Selah. The literal definition of this word is to pause and calmly think about that. Because the Psalms were often songs that were a part of public worship, this term was extremely valuable. The entire congregation of worshipers would take a moment to think about what they had just sung.

In life we have many types of Selah moments. When things are troubling around us we may become overwrought with fear or even dread. Concern may escalate to a state of emotional paralysis. This is the time to step back and realistically look at the situation. Although things may be difficult at that time, the circumstances are often blown out of proportion in our minds. Attempting to pray in our agitated state, we may simply begin to babble about the problem. During this God says “calm down.”

Excitement can be another time when we go overboard with her emotions. A good thing can happen and we can get so excited about it that we have difficulty functioning in other areas of our life. Anticipation overrules practicality. Instead of focusing on the tasks at hand, the mind can go into overdrive considering all the possibilities and implications of this new occurrence.

Psalm 3 contains three places where the term Selah is used. King David has been running from his son, Absalom. He opens the Psalm by writing, “Lord, how they are increased who trouble me! Many are they who rise up against me. Many are saying of me, there is no help for him in God. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]!” (Psalm 3:1-2 AMP) Notice the first place we are told to calmly consider what has been said. David is looking at his enemies and the mockery of him for enduring for believing that God will help him. David has a real problem, but if he focuses on the urgency of the moment and the taunts of the enemy, he may lose heart. By stepping back and calmly considering his dilemma in light of the God he is speaking to, his perspective changes.

The next words out of his mouth show this change. He is now looking at how great our God is. “But You, O Lord, are a shield for me, my glory, and the lifter of my head. With my voice I cry to the Lord, and He hears and answers me out of His holy hill. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]!” (Psalm 3:3-4 AMP) David was now growing in excitement as he worships God. Here he not only sings praises to the Almighty, but he contemplates all this truly means. He understands that God will answer and care for him.

Because he understands this, David can go about his daily life. The enemies are still there but David’s heart secure. “I lay down and slept; I wakened again, for the Lord sustains me. I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people who have set themselves against me round about. Arise, O Lord; save me, O my God! For You have struck all my enemies on the cheek; You have broken the teeth of the ungodly.” (Psalm 3:5-7 AMP) He still has an enemy to face, but he is more aware of Almighty God walking beside him protecting him.

In the final verse David states with confidence, “Salvation belongs to the Lord; May Your blessing be upon Your people. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]!”Psalm 3:8 (AMP) His mind has turned from not only his current situation but to God who rescues from all calamity. He is also considering all of God’s people now. By calmly considering the greatness of God, David has gone from fear to faith and from concern for his band of followers and himself to all people who follow God. I can almost see David dancing with joy as he considers the salvation of God. But then he chooses to calmly consider all of God’s great attributes.

This is a great example of the benefits of calming down. When we pause and calmly consider both our situations and the greatness of God, we too will see things as they truly are. We will go from fear to faith and a narrow vision that includes only those around us and ourselves to love and concern for the entire world.

Whatever is going on in your life today, take a Selah moment. Pause and calmly think of the faithfulness of God, His protection and deliverance, and the great plans He has for you and all of His children.

Has Your Speech Matured?

Anyone who has spent time with small child knows that they tend to have a cute language of their own. Certain words or phrases become a part of their speech that are very cute at a young age. Even the name is often familiarized for a young child. For instance, when my son Jonathan was young we called him Jon - Jon. If we were to use that term of endearment for my now 23-year-old son, it would be totally inappropriate. There are some things that are very cute when a young child says them, but are simply wrong coming from an adult.

At the very beginning of life we acknowledge any sounds that are similar to a word we hope to hear. Thus, the sounds dadada becomes daddy and mmma becomes mommy. In our house, O’s signified Cheerios and animal sounds replace the actual names. The cow was referred to as a ‘moo moo’ and the duck was a ‘quack quack.’ Some other words that Jonathan misspoke as a preschooler include hopital for hospital and, psketti for spaghetti.  Even as I attempt to type them now, the spell check on my computer alerts me that something is wrong with these words. What was cute then is now simply incorrect. 

In what is often referred to as the ‘love chapter,’ the apostle Paul speaks of this concept. “When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; now that I have become a man, I am done with childish ways and have put them aside.” (1 Corinthians 13:11 AMP) 

Children are by nature, egocentric. They perceive the world completely by how it affects them. As they grow older they begin to understand that they are part of the greater world. We may first approach our relationship with God mainly interested in what He has provided for us. Scripture does tell us, “Bless (affectionately, gratefully praise) the Lord, O my soul, and forget not [one of] all His benefits” (Psalm 103:2 AMP) We are to consider and enjoy the benefits Jesus died to provide for us. But as we spend more time with God, we will begin to consider more of what we can do for Him. “What will you do for me?” is replaced with “what can I do for you today?” We find that knowing Him and serving Him are both important.

In the quest for independence a young child will come up with phrases such as, “my own self,” or “I do it!” This again may be appropriate to some degree in a young child’s development. As a young Christian we also begin to venture out more in our own faith rather than relying on others for help. We mature by learning the great necessity of total reliance on God. What we may have wanted to do ourselves, we understand can only be done under the direction and power of the Holy Spirit. We grow to understand the words of Jesus. “I am the Vine; you are the branches. Whoever lives in Me and I in him bears much (abundant) fruit. However, apart from Me [cut off from vital union with Me] you can do nothing.” (John 15:5 AMP) “I’ll do it myself” is replaced with “I can’t do it at all unless You lead and empower me.” 

What parent has not endured the excessive question of “why?” from their inquisitive child? To know and understand our Creator and Heavenly Father, the unending question of ‘why’ will also become a part of our quest.   Although acceptable and potentially admirable in a young Christian, again we must learn to put some of these things aside as we grow up in our faith. We learn that the question of “Why” will not always be answered. We become content to know that we could not possibly Understand all of God’s ways. ^“Your [infinite] knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high above me, I cannot reach it.” (Psalm 139:6 AMP) True trust, accompanied by peace, causes us to no longer need to understand all our situations but simply know that God both controls our lives and has our best interests in mind. Even in trials this trust prevails.  “We are assured and know that [God being a partner in their labor] all things work together and are [fitting into a plan] for good to and for those who love God and are called according to [His] design and purpose.”  (Romans 8:28 AMP) 

Our level of maturity will be shown in what we think, say and do in our everyday lives. As we walk in selfless love, our dedication to Jesus will become plain to see. “By this shall all [men] know that you are My disciples, if you love one another [if you keep on showing love among yourselves].”  (John 13:35 AMP) We must let love rule all.

So today, check your speech, thoughts and actions. Be conscious to put away childish things to talk and act like a spiritual grown-up. Some of the baby talk is no longer becoming to you.

Good Meals Require Time

When time allows, I love to cook a meal from scratch. I choose not to use a lot of the additives that pre-made foods usually contain. Today, as I prepared stew and a dessert, I enjoyed the searing, chopping and mixing that brought these two dishes together. When the stew was in the crock pot and the cake was in the oven, I stepped back and looked at the mess I had created. I also looked at the clock and realized how much of my day had been spent. In that moment I wished there was a way to cook without having to do all of the prep and cleanup.

Sometimes I feel this way about sharing the Word of God with others. Talking about the things of God is one of my favorite things to do. It can be extremely exciting to have that “God encounter” when we have the perfect conversation with someone who is hungry for the gospel. The sharing of God's love and knowing just how specifically He has used us in that moment can be exhilarating.

Do we always feel that way about the preparation time? Spending time studying God's Word, praying and listening to the Holy Spirit is a time to be cherished, but it is time consuming. Setting aside this time may interfere with other things that we would choose to put on our schedule. It is always valuable but it is not always easy. “Study and be eager and do your utmost to present yourself to God approved (tested by trial), a workman who has no cause to be ashamed, correctly analyzing and accurately dividing [rightly handling and skillfully teaching] the Word of Truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15 AMP)

And what about the cleanup time? Often when we have shared scripture with someone, there is a time of discipleship that will follow. Are we willing to put in the time and effort to love a new believer? Are we willing to share the world with them walk with them through their trials and answer their questions? Again these are wonderful and fulfilling things to do but not always convenient to our schedule. The benefits are amazing but the work is not always easy.

Sometimes the preparation time is shortened. Today, as I made my stew, I chopped all the vegetables, seared the meat, mixed with gravy and combined everything and put it in the crockpot. On other occasions I have purchased a prepackaged mix of stew vegetables, mixed it with the meat and even used a premade gravy (when I can find one that does not have the additives we choose not to eat). Sometimes the words God leads me to share with someone, come straight from a message that I have heard from a preacher or pastor. This can be from a church service or another source of godly teaching. At these time it seems easy to share the word and see life reach the hearer. It's almost as if we get the benefits without doing the work. Jesus spoke of how some sow and others reap. “For in this the saying holds true, one sows and another reaps. I sent you to reap a crop for which you have not toiled. Other men have labored and you have stepped in to reap the results of their work.” (John 4:37-38 AMP) In a sense, we are actually sowing what has already been sown into us.

There have been times when I am in a hurry and have left the kitchen less than clean. My husband has come home from work and cleaned the entire kitchen for me. When I return home later in the evening, I find everything washed and put away. My work ended with the cooking. Likewise there are times when God will put us into someone’s life to share a word of hope. That may be all we are called to do and another will come alongside to nurture the believer. God leads each of us to do our part in His perfect plan.

 Jesus, who is the word made flesh, (see John 1) is also called the bread of life. “[But] this is the Bread that comes down from heaven, so that [any] one may eat of it and never die.” (John 6:50 AMP) He is our spiritual food. We spent time learning of Him and then presenting Him to those we come in contact with. Sometimes this will be an ongoing process, such as cooking a meal from scratch and cleaning up afterwards. Other times we will operate as one of many workers God has placed in a person’s life. Whatever the situation we must love to learn God’s word and be ready to feed the spiritually hungry when opportunity arises. Three times Jesus asked Peter if he loved Him. Peter responded each time that he did. All three times Jesus told Peter, “Feed my sheep.” (see John 21:15 – 17) 

Have you spent time preparing to bring nourishment to a hungry world? Are you currently enjoying a feast with a friend? Will you be willing to do whatever the Father asks of you? Feed God’s sheep.

The Banner Waves in Adversity

As we took a drive on a windy day, an elderly friend of ours pointed out the American flag atop a pole in a neighbor’s yard. As she commented on how she loved that flag she stated, “Look at it blowing in the wind.” The motion of the wind had unfurled the flag, displaying the red, white and blue openly. The stars & stripes were plain to see as the outstretched banner rippled with the strong current. Despite and even because of the intensity of the wind, the flag waved proudly that day.

On a calm and peaceful day a flag will hang limp at the top of the pole. The colors blend together as the folds of the flag swirl around its base. It is when the peaceful calm is disrupted by the force of the wind, that the shapes and color which represent our country are most clearly seen. In the midst of the storm that banner can be clearly observed.

One of the compound names for God found in Scripture is Jehovah Nissi, which means ‘The Lord Our Banner’. This name was first noted when Joshua led the army of Israel to defeat the Amalekites. While Moses held his arms up to God, Joshua remained successful. (See Exodus 17:9 – 13) Moses built a memorial to acknowledge God in this event. “And Moses built an altar and called the name of it, The Lord is my Banner;” God had been the banner of deliverance. (Exodus 17:15 AMP) The Psalmist also acknowledges God as the banner of His people. He wrote, “[But now] You have set up a banner for those who fear and worshipfully revere You [to which they may flee from the bow], a standard displayed because of the truth. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]! That Your beloved ones may be delivered, save with Your right hand and answer us [or me].” (Psalm 60:4-5 AMP) This banner denotes the provision and protection of God.

Evidence of God should always be apparent in us. When everything in life is calm and peaceful God’s presence can still be seen in the life of a believer. His character is comfortingly wrapped around us. When the winds of adversity begin to blow, that banner that is Jehovah Nissi unfurls and both the believer and all around can see more of God’s attributes. We then realize how multifaceted is God’s love and design for us.

When we trust as turmoil and fear assail us, we can experience supernatural peace. “Do not fret or have any anxiety about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition (definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God. And God's peace [shall be yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace] which transcends all understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7 AMP)

When we yield to temptation and slip into sin, we can learn of the Father’s unconditional love and forgiveness. “If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness [everything not in conformity to His will in purpose, thought, and action].” (1 John 1:9 AMP)

When we feel abandoned and totally alone we will experience “A father of the fatherless and a judge and protector of the widows is God in His holy habitation.” (Psalm 68:5 AMP)

The list is unending. The more trials that come against us the more we learn of our creator who loves us. “…Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore with loving-kindness have I drawn you and continued My faithfulness to you.” (Jeremiah 31:3 AMP) We will become more intimately acquainted with Jesus and experience the attributes Isaiah prophesied. “For to us a Child is born, to us a Son is given; and the government shall be upon His shoulder, and His name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father [of Eternity], Prince of Peace.” (Isaiah 9:6 AMP)

Storms and high winds will come and go in our lives. For every need Jehovah, the Great I Am, has a provision. As we endure these storms we grow closer to the Almighty. The shades of His provision will become brighter and more distinct. Like the bride in the Song of Solomon will be able to say, “He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love [for love waved as a protecting and comforting banner over my head when I was near him].” (Song of Songs 2:4 AMP)

So let the winds of life below and you will see the beauty of the fullness of the Lord unfurled in your life. Look with confidence and appreciate His beauty. His banner of love is waving over you for all to see.

A Perfect Plate

In a recent episode of a cooking show that features children who are amazing chefs, I saw some interesting principles. All of the young contestants had access to fresh and nutritious ingredients. How these are put together determines the final product that is presented to the judges. Dishes must be cooked properly. An undercooked or overcooked meal can lose all of its appeal to a diner. In addition to proper cooking techniques chefs must know how to properly season their dishes. In addition to the preparation, how the creation is placed on the plate for presentation is extremely important.

The challenge of this particular episode of the show was to bake a citrus cream pie. Some of the pies that came before the judges looked extremely beautiful. Closer inspection revealed that the pies had not been cooked properly. The dough was undercooked or there was the wrong proportions of cream filling to topping. Still others were cooked fine but had not been seasoned well. They were too sweet without enough of the citrus flavor. Although there pies looked beautiful, the tasting was less than anticipated.

Pressed for time one young chef had become a bit careless in the placement of a garnish of raspberries on top of the pie.  When the judge questioned him about the less than beautiful topping, the young man said that it was “not that important.” The judge was surprised and corrected the young man. The tastiest dessert can be ruined by its appearance. Presentation is extremely important. It can be the difference between a diner choosing to try the delectable treat or pass it by.

These principles of cooking and baking can also apply to our presentation of the gospel. The gospel, which is the basis for everything we share, is fresh and nutritious. Despite the fact that these words were written down thousands of years ago, God’s word is still alive and pertinent today. “For the Word that God speaks is alive and full of power [making it active, operative, energizing, and effective];” (Hebrews 4:12a AMP) We all have access to its life-giving wisdom and power. How we present this word to others can make a real difference.

First of all we must be prepared to share God’s word when opportunities arise. This preparation requires that we spend time studying the Bible. “Study and be eager and do your utmost to present yourself to God approved (tested by trial), a workman who has no cause to be ashamed, correctly analyzing and accurately dividing [rightly handling and skillfully teaching] the Word of Truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15 AMP) By spending time learning the word of God and listening to the Holy Spirit, we will be ready to share the word with those we encounter. The more we study, the more perfect our preparation will become.

We are also to season all of our conversation with the word of God. “You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste (its strength, its quality), how can its saltiness be restored?” (Matthew 5:13a AMP) Like using salt, sugar or any other spice, the choice and proper amount is always important. Using salt in place of sugar or vice versa leads to a disastrous meal. Likewise, simply spouting scriptures without considering the listener, can have less then desirable outcomes. Listening to the Holy Spirit, we will know which Scripture, how much or how little to share at any given time.

The final criteria of a great dish is presentation. How we present the love and compassion of God through His son Jesus Christ is critical. We do not need to worry about what we will say when opportunities arise. “For the Holy Spirit will teach you in that very hour and moment what [you] ought to say.” (Luke 12:12 AMP) The Holy Spirit knows everything about the people we will encounter. He will orchestrate conversations and give us wisdom and the proper words to speak. We can share all aspects of God and His word. We do not ever want to water down the truth found in the Bible. The Holy Spirit will instruct us how to present truth in a manner in which it will be received and provide nourishment to the hearer. All need to hear of our wonderful God. Then they can, “… taste and see that the Lord [our God] is good! Blessed (happy, fortunate, to be envied) is the man who trusts and takes refuge in Him.” (Psalm 34:8 AMP)

So study up, listen up (to the Holy Spirit) and serve up the gospel to those you encounter today. The word you give may be a light appetizer, a full main course or a dessert of the sweetness of God’s love. Allow God to use you to present His love to a hungry world that is unaware of the feast He has prepared for them.

Wait till Your Father Gets Home!

“Wait till your father gets home!” What feelings do these words evoke in your? Is it fear or even downright terror? In many households over many years, these words have been spoken to disobedient children. The implication has been clear that “father” will take care of any discipline issues when he arrives. This causes fear rather than anticipation of the time that the father would return home each day.

When my son was growing up, I tried very hard to never use that saying. I wanted the time that dad arrived home from work to be something we looked forward to every day. My husband and I worked hard at being on the same page where a discipline program was concerned. We followed the same pattern for the positive and negative consequences for behavior. Very seldom did I have to use the threat of a father’s hand of punishment.

In our home we often talked more about the need to wait until “daddy” comes home. This statement held a sense of anticipation. Not only were we waiting to spend time with daddy, we were looking forward to whatever was planned for that time. It could be a simple thing like having dinner. It could be a time to present a masterful creation that Jon had made that day. It could be an exciting outing. Everything that we planned to do was better when daddy was involved. We looked forward to sharing that part of our day together.

These two statements can also apply to our Heavenly Father.

How many people live their lives fearing punishment for their sins and trying to hide from God, their father? They attempt to run their own lives and do everything on their own. The thought of an encounter with God is not pleasant. The greatness of God can be overwhelming to those who do not know Him personally. Describing the greatness of God, the psalmist wrote, “Tremble, O earth, at the presence of the Lord, at the presence of the God of Jacob,” (Psalm 114:7 AMP) Someone who only knows of God’s power and authority without understanding His grace, mercy and forgiveness may truly fear His presence.

Others may know and actually enjoy His presence. But that does not mean that waiting for daddy is always something we desire to do. How often do not want to wait for God’s timing? Being hungry for things we think we need, we may want to eat now and not wait for a feast in God’s presence. Anticipating a plan for something great, even a ministry to others, we may want to run forward without the preparation and anointing of God’s Spirit. In the midst of trials awaiting God’s perfect deliverance can be extremely hard. In any of these cases we must fight the urge to move forward in our own power without the presence and direction of our Heavenly Father. The psalmist also encourages, “Wait and hope for and expect the Lord; be brave and of good courage and let your heart be stout and enduring. Yes, wait for and hope for and expect the Lord.” (Psalm 27:14 AMP)

With a proper attitude, we are excited to spend time totally aware of the Lord’s presence. Anything that we do is better when we acknowledge God’s presence and invite Him to join us. Following His lead, listening to His voice and witnessing all the wonderful things He provides is better than anything we could choose to do without Him. Although God is always with us, it is when we include Him in our thoughts and conversations that we truly experience His blessings. A conversation with the Lord through Bible reading and prayer can be a truly exciting experience. Sharing about our day and presenting what we have accomplished to our Abba makes everything more worthwhile. “And because you [really] are [His] sons, God has sent the [Holy] Spirit of His Son into our hearts, crying, Abba (Father)! Father!” (Galatians 4:6 AMP)

We never have to fear God’s presence. When we have sinned we need to tell our Father God and receive the forgiveness He offers. We can then look with excitement to the time we will spend with daddy.

Are you waiting for “daddy” today? Invite the presence of God into your thoughts and actions and you will see that every experience of the day is better for it.

Deep Cleaning

Recently, my husband and I began a cleaning project in the kitchen. We pulled out the refrigerator and stove. We proceeded to deep clean the floors, counter sides, appliances and walls. (Thankfully it was not as bad as I had anticipated.) In order to do this, we pulled everything from the top of the refrigerator and counters. We also gathered the bags from behind the refrigerator and the large cookie pans that slide vertically beside the stove. All were placed on the table and another countertop across the room. We swept and scrubbed everything.

After pushing the clean appliances back into the place and scrubbing wall and counter tops, I looked around the kitchen. At this point, the kitchen looked messier than it had been before the deep clean had begun. Despite the energy put into sweeping and scrubbing, most of the completed work was hidden when the appliances were moved back into position. I knew that progress has been made, but all that met my eye was what still needed to be done. Knowing how clean the hidden crevices were did nothing to improve the view before me.

Do you ever feel that this is what is going on in your spiritual life? God is responsible for doing the cleanup work in our hearts. We come to Him with all our failures, bad habits and wrong attitudes. If we present these before Him and request His work in our lives, He will make something beautiful out of us. We are promised, “If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness [everything not in conformity to His will in purpose, thought, and action].” (1 John 1:9 AMP) We admit and confess our sin and wrongdoing. God forgives and cleans us up. 

After he sinned, King David was well aware that he could not clean himself up. He knew that a true heart clean could only be performed by Almighty God. Therefore he prayed, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right, persevering, and steadfast spirit within me.” (Psalm 51:10 AMP) This can also be the daily cry of our hearts. As we desire to be more like Jesus we ask that He clean anything that detracts from achieving this transformation. 

We may dedicate time to the renewal of our minds to the word of God. We may endure trials and testing while relying on the Lord. We can even know that bad habits are changing and our hearts are becoming softer. So why does it seem that when we look ahead all we see maybe how far we still have to go? As we grow more mature we may find unpleasing attitudes that we were not even aware are inside us. Like the bags behind my refrigerator, these had remained unseen but now require action. Becoming aware of them is actually proof of the deep work that is in progress. So quickly we forget the work and progress and look only at what remains to be overcome. 

Regarding this progress, in our lives we can consider Jesus’ teaching of the kingdom. “… The kingdom of God is like a man who scatters seed upon the ground, And then continues sleeping and rising night and day while the seed sprouts and grows and increases—he knows not how. The earth produces [acting] by itself—first the blade, then the ear, then the full grain in the ear.” (Mark 4:26-29 AMP) The word of God that has been planted in our hearts is accomplishing its purpose even when we do not see it. After time we will see the first signs of character growth. This growth will continue until we see fully developed fruit in our lives. 

It was fairly discouraging to continue cleaning the kitchen when our progress remained unseen. Step-by-step, piece by piece, wipe by wipe; the work continued until the visible areas where as clean as the hidden. By the time the kitchen had been fully cleaned, a great sense of satisfaction had replaced the discouragement. It took time and considerable effort, but the result was quite gratifying. 

Likewise, in our spiritual lives we continue, day by day and decision by decision, choosing to follow God’s plan. We will find that God will finish every work that He begins and us. “And I am convinced and sure of this very thing, that He Who began a good work in you will continue until the day of Jesus Christ [right up to the time of His return], developing [that good work] and perfecting and bringing it to full completion in you.” (Philippians 1:6 AMP) We can be grateful and satisfied with the work that has already been done to bring about maturity as we stride toward the beauty of this completion. We will one day see that, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.” (Ecclesiastes 3:11a AMP) 

As you evaluate your life, rejoice in what God has already done in you. As you become aware of them, bring other areas before the Lord for cleaning. And look expectantly to all that God can and will accomplish in your life.

Happy Anniversary!

Today is my day to remember and celebrate and remember 27 years since I stood at the altar and said “I do” to my love and best friend. In previous years David and I have spent time watching the wedding video and remembering that day. Some years we have gone on a vacation, just the two of us, to celebrate alone together. For our 25^th Anniversary we renewed our vows in a ceremony before witnesses. Every year we have spent remembering the past and dreaming about the future. We cherish this time together.

Scripture speaks of setting up places and times for remembering and celebrating significant events. Annual remembrances were often given as commands. Moses commanded the Israelites to celebrate the time they lived temporary shelters during their years in the desert. “For seven days you shall keep a solemn Feast to the Lord your God in the place which the Lord chooses; because the Lord your God will bless you in all your produce and in all the works of your hands, so that you will be altogether joyful.” (Deuteronomy 16:15 AMP) This, known as the annual Feast of Tabernacles, is still celebrated today.  Other celebrations of remembrance began voluntarily so future generations would know of the greatness of God.  Purim, the celebration of the deliverance of God through the obedience of Esther, is an example of this. “Therefore they called these days Purim, after the name Pur [lot]. Therefore, because of all that was in this letter and what they had faced in this matter and what had happened to them, The Jews ordained and took it upon themselves and their descendants and all who joined them that without fail every year they would keep these two days at the appointed time and as it was written, That these days should be remembered (imprinted on their minds) and kept throughout every generation in every family, province, and city, and that these days of Purim should never cease from among the Jews, nor the commemoration of them cease among their descendants.” (Esther 9:26-28 AMP) Celebrations like these both remember the past and bring hope to for the future.

 Another example of remembrance established in the Old Testament was the building of altars and monuments. Jacob set up several. When he left his father-in-law, Laban, they built a monument to commemorate their trust in God. “So come now, let us make a covenant or league, you and I, and let it be for a witness between you and me. So Jacob set up a stone for a pillar or monument...And [the pillar or monument was called] Mizpah [watchpost], for he [Laban] said, May the Lord watch between you and me when we are absent and hidden one from another.” (Genesis 31:44-45, 49 AMP) After his successful meeting with Esau, Jacob set an altar to the Lord who protected him. “And God said to Jacob, Arise, go up to Bethel and dwell there. And make there an altar to God Who appeared to you [in a distinct manifestation] when you fled from the presence of Esau your brother.” (Genesis 35:1 AMP) These special places not only remind us of greatness but also inspire hope. 

We celebrate the anniversary of important events in our lives. Do we consider celebrating the things that God has done for us? Do we celebrate the anniversary of our receiving the salvation that Jesus has provided? Do we regularly contemplate times in our lives when God’s hand of protection or provision were obviously witnessed? Do we plan celebrations for these events? 

Remembrance of God’s mighty deeds from the past inspire thanks and praise. This remembrance also elicits a greater desire to spend time in God’s presence. We are able to spend time considering all that has already been done for us. This brings confidence that God will continue to provide for and deliver us. With this confidence we are free to dream of what our future will bring as we continue to walk with God. 

Just like the wedding is merely the beginning of married life, many things that God has done for us are the beginnings of what He has planned for our lives. We should celebrate these beginnings and remember all that has transpired since. With confidence we dream of the future. “And I am convinced and sure of this very thing, that He Who began a good work in you will continue until the day of Jesus Christ [right up to the time of His return], developing [that good work] and perfecting and bringing it to full completion in you.” (Philippians 1:6 AMP)  

Today I will spend time with my husband reminiscing, rejoicing and looking ahead. Likewise we also need to plan times for the celebrations with our Lord. 

Remember and celebrate the mighty things God has done for you. Spend time with Him rejoicing over the past and expectantly planning the future together.

Let Me Introduce You to My New Best Friend!

Still pondering my upcoming anniversary, I have been thinking about the months that led up to my wedding day. David and I went from friends, to special friends, to engaged, to married all within the same calendar year. Because of this, many people on our Christmas card lists were unaware of the events. That year we included a Christmas letter entitled, “Let Me Introduce You to My New Best Friend!” This was our way of telling distant friends and relatives of everything that had occurred during the year 1987. The most important thing that we desired to share about this year was our new found love and life commitment. Our best friend eclipsed any of the other occurrences of that year.

We also receive a new best friend when we come to Christ through receiving the salvation He provided by His death on the cross and resurrection. Everything in life changes with this new relationship. We no longer walk alone, but side by side with Jesus. “and behold, I am with you all the days (perpetually, uniformly, and on every occasion), to the [very] close and consummation of the age. Amen (so let it be).” (Matthew 28:20b AMP)We have the Holy Spirit living within us. “Do you not know that your body is the temple (the very sanctuary) of the Holy Spirit Who lives within you, Whom you have received [as a Gift] from God?” (1 Corinthians 6:19 AMP) As the bride of Christ, we have married into the family of God and now have a new, Heavenly Father. He has adopted us as His own. “And because you [really] are [His] sons, God has sent the [Holy] Spirit of His Son into our hearts, crying, Abba (Father)! Father!” (Galatians 4:6 AMP) 

Have we now also become so wrapped up in this new relationship, that everything else seems less important? Do we wish to tell all those around us about our best friend? In many ways this is true, but sadly over time we often lose much of this zeal. It can become easy to talk about nonessential or even nonsensical things more than that which is of extreme importance. We can become accustomed to walking with God on a daily basis and lose some of the awe and amazement that we first saw in each and every moment. Even worse we can find ourselves talking more about problems and trials than the amazing presence that God provides during these hard times. 

Speaking to the church at Ephesus the angel charged, “that you have left (abandoned) the love that you had at first [you have deserted Me, your first love]. Remember then from what heights you have fallen. Repent (change the inner man to meet God's will) and do the works you did previously [when first you knew the Lord]” (Revelation 2:4-5 AMP) We can get so used to the presence of God in our lives that we no longer are amazed at His faithfulness and love. Even when we find ourselves in constant awareness of God’s goodness, we may be reluctant to share all that He is doing for us. 

Whenever the opportunity arises, I brag on my husband’s best attributes. I am proud of him and not ashamed to tell others about him. People who know me are aware of his importance in my life. I proudly wear my wedding rings. However he is no longer my number one topic of conversation. Over the years, I have reduced the amount of time I introduce David into my conversations. My friends are probably quite happy with this, since in those early months I could tie just about anything that was being discussed back to him. 

Have we reduced our introduction of God into our conversations? How often do we talk about the amazing things that He is doing? Can people see His presence in our lives? Do we take every opportunity to brag on God’s faithfulness and love? Even when He is not the initial topic of conversation, He should be seen and felt in all that we do and say. We should never assume that others experience everything we do. We must give voice to all that God means to us. The apostle Paul addresses reluctance to speak about Jesus Christ. “Do not blush or be ashamed then, to testify to and for our Lord,” (2 Timothy 1:8a AMP) We must always remember and speak of the greatness of the salvation that we have been given and its ongoing influence in our day to day life. 

Be amazed that God’s presence in your life every moment of every day. Don’t be afraid to be the one of which others say, “Here we go again, he/she is talking about his/her best friend and love. Be eager to say, “Guess what Jesus has said to and done for me now?”

How Well I Know Him?

As my 27^th anniversary approaches at the end of this week, I am pondering how well I know my husband and just a little I know my husband. One would think that after 27 years of marriage a husband and wife would know everything about each other. I know that I am confident both in my love for David and David’s love for me. Often we can know exactly what the other person is thinking because we are thinking the same. Yet still my husband will say things that catch me totally off guard. I would not have guessed that he would’ve responded in that way to a particular set of circumstances. Likewise, I have said or done things that totally throw him for a loop. My reaction to a situation can sometimes baffle him. We know each other so well and so little all at the same time.

The same can also be true of our relationship with God. When we have some knowledge of God, we can mistakenly determine that we know what He will do in any given set of circumstances. There is some truth to this because the Scripture tells us of God’s eternal attributes. We can be confident that He will give salvation to anyone who comes to Him with an open, receiving heart. “But to as many as did receive and welcome Him, He gave the authority (power, privilege, right) to become the children of God, that is, to those who believe in (adhere to, trust in, and rely on) His name.” (John 1:12 AMP) We can also be confident that He will forgive any sins we have committed when we confess them to Him. “If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness [everything not in conformity to His will in purpose, thought, and action].” (1 John 1:9 AMP) We can also be sure that God’s faithfulness will continue regardless of any actions on our part. “If we are faithless [do not believe and are untrue to Him], He remains true (faithful to His Word and His righteous character), for He cannot deny Himself.” (2 Timothy 2:13 AMP) Many of God’s character attributes are clearly stated in Scripture. We can rely on these at all times.

If we try to draw a picture of who God is and believe that we know how and why He acts as He does, we will become disappointed. No one can know Almighty God that well except for His own Son, Jesus Christ. Our minds are not big enough to comprehend how God thinks and what determines His actions. “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord.” (Isaiah 55:8AMP) We can rely on God’s faithfulness, but that still may not mean He will rescue us from every trial. He is faithful also to the character that He is building within us through trials. Because circumstances may be difficult and seem unfair does not mean that God is any less faithful than when we are experiencing a time of ease.

Just as I cannot be aware of everything that my husband David faces each day, we do not know everything that God sees. Decisions that David makes are based on all the facts that he has at the time. I do not always see everything that has gone in to a decision he has made. Likewise, with God, we do not have the entire picture. God sees the end from the beginning and from the east and to the west. He knows all the players that are involved and He knows all the prayers that had been prayed.

We must trust God in all circumstances. In hard times God has a plan to deliver. “We are assured and know that [God being a partner in their labor] all things work together and are [fitting into a plan] for good to and for those who love God and are called according to [His] design and purpose.” (Romans 8:28 AMP) We will not always know the cause of the hardship. It can be sin, which God will reveal if we are open to him. It can be in the unseen realm such as Satan’s request to test Job. “Then Satan answered the Lord, Does Job [reverently] fear God for nothing? Have You not put a hedge about him and his house and all that he has, on every side? You have conferred prosperity and happiness upon him in the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land. But put forth Your hand now and touch all that he has, and he will curse You to Your face.” (Job 1:9-11 AMP) In this case the testing may have seemed like a punishment, yet after the trial came great blessing. Satan also requested to test Peter. “Simon, Simon (Peter), listen! Satan has asked excessively that [all of] you be given up to him [out of the power and keeping of God], that he might sift [all of] you like grain, But I have prayed especially for you [Peter], that your [own] faith may not fail; and when you yourself have turned again, strengthen and establish your brethren.” (Luke 22:31-32 AMP) After Peter was restored from the time of failing Jesus, he was able to bring restoration to many others. Any time of testing will end and we will be stronger for it when we trust God.

Spend time seeking to know more of God daily. Know that there will be unknown times in your lives. Trust God and all times.