My two dogs Beamer and Karamel Kream (Kari) get along
really well – most of the time. They will play together, sleep beside
each other, and even lick the same plate without fighting. They love to
run outside together and bark at other dogs together. Together is a great
word for them …except when either toys or attention is involved. At that
point jealousy emerges with a vengeance. The favorite toy is the one that
the other dog has. The person whose attention matters the most is the one
who is paying attention to the other dog.
God has called us to walk in unity, Behold, how
good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together
in unity!” (Psalm 133:1 AMP) When we walk together and
encourage each other we become a mighty force for the kingdom of God.
Unfortunately, jealously and pettiness are often true in the Body of Christ, as
well. We can often be a united force and walk in unity as God has
intended. Then we see someone else getting blessed and a vying for
attention begins. We see the gift God has given another and we desire
both that gift and the attention of our Father.
Being jealous of the other dog’s toys is really quite
silly. There is an entire basket of toys to select from. Regardless
of another toy being the generally preferred toy, all it takes is for one dog
to pick up a toy and the battle is on. Now all attention is focused on
that single toy. One dog is guarding his possession, while the other is
seeking an opportunity to steal it away. Neither dog is able to enjoy any
toy. Each dog simply wants what the other has, when the other has
it. That amiable companion of a few moments prior has now become public
enemy #1.
When we become envious of what God is doing in another
believer’s life, we get to a very dangerous place. God has blessings and
callings for each one of us. When He opens a door of blessing in one
believer’s life, He is in no ways limited in His ability to bless
another. Like that basket of toys in our living room, God has incredible
plans and gifts for each of His children. What may be a suitable
opportunity for one believer may not be a proper fit for the temperament of
another. He also is not paying more attention to one believer just
because there is some obvious breakthrough in his or her life. And yet we
surrender to envy and resentment. “You are jealous and covet [what others have] and your
desires go unfulfilled; [so] you become murderers. [To hate is to murder as far
as your hearts are concerned.] You burn with envy and anger and are not able to
obtain [the gratification, the contentment, and the happiness that you seek],
so you fight and war. You do not have, because you do not ask.” (James
4:2 AMP) All we have to do is ask God for His best for us and then be
willing to await His perfect timing.
When it comes to toys, Beamer loves the squeaker.
Kari hates that sound entirely. Yet, she will attempt to steal that toy
away and guard it passionately. She would be much happier playing with a
silent toy. She has even worked herself into a frenzy by inadvertently
squeaking the toy as she attempts to ‘bury it’ in the couch. But she will keep
Beamer from squeaking and enjoying it at all costs. If only she would
allow her masters to pick the best toy and place to play for her.
If only we would allow our Master to pick the best gift and
place to serve for us. All would be much more fulfilled, happy and
peaceful.
The
apostle Paul felt very strongly about believers supporting each other at all
times. “I Therefore, the prisoner for
the Lord, appeal to and beg you to walk (lead a life) worthy of the [divine]
calling to which you have been called [with behavior that is a credit to the
summons to God's service, living as becomes you] with complete lowliness
of mind (humility) and meekness (unselfishness, gentleness, mildness), with
patience, bearing with one another and making allowances because you love one
another.” (Ephesians 4:1-2 AMP) Jesus also spoke about the
ineffectiveness brought on by division. “Any kingdom that is divided
against itself is being brought to desolation and laid waste, and no city or
house divided against itself will last or continue to stand.” (Matthew 12:25AMP)
Do not allow a toy, a ministry or
another’s blessing to consume your desires. Do not give envy or jealousy
even a tiny foot in the door. God has plenty of blessings and work to go
around. Ask for His best at His perfect time and rejoice in what He is
doing for others.