Waiting to Return

Christmas day is over and the masses have headed to the stores to return or exchange unwanted gifts.  The lines are long and shoppers impatient.  Instead of that perfect gift hoped for, this was received.  It’s time to take it back and get what you really wanted.

There are some legitimate reasons to return gifts. One year I received a beautiful sweater that was off by two sizes. When I arrived at the store, I realized finding that same sweater in my size would be impossible. So into the long return line I went. Standing in line I heard others speaking their reasons for returning their items. Some simply did not like them. Others complained that the item was not what they asked for. Still others had received duplicates of the same item. The list went on, some reasons valid and others merely selfish.

Have you ever received a gift from your heavenly Father and wanted to return it? Before you quickly dismiss this thought I want to explore it a little deeper.

We may ask for material things that we may not truly want. I remember when some friends of ours were house hunting and asked God for a pool in their new home. They found a home that that all the needs of their family and had a beautiful pool in the backyard. They thanked God both privately and publicly for providing their dream.  Several years later the wife confessed to me that she really hated all the upkeep necessary for that pool. There was an expense for the chemicals and hours of labor that were necessary. Somehow the amount of fun in the pool provided paled in comparison to the work. This woman actually said she wished this had been one prayer God had answered with a “no”.  Count the cost of your requests.

Many things are more subtle.  People often say don’t ask for patience because you’ll get difficult situations in which great patience is required. But if you truly want to develop the fruit of the Spirit in your life, are not those difficult situations that develop patience a gift? It may not be what you would have ordered. We like everything quick and easy. But truth be told, microwave character just doesn’t exist. Virtue, godliness and true maturity come only after walking through trials with the help and presence of Jesus Christ.

 “Make me more like Jesus!” may be a heart desire that you voice to the Father. Then you learn that part of becoming like Jesus requires sharing in his suffering.  “For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort to.” (2Corinthians 1:5 ESV)  Not only do we find that we must share the sufferings, but we must do it joyfully.  “But rejoice insofar as you share Christ’s sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed.” (1 Peter 4:13 ESV) While experiencing  the suffering portion of these verses, we may want to rush to that return line. This wasn’t what we thought we asked for, and it definitely is not the right size or color. We cannot see the second half of these verses which promise His comfort and glory revealed.  Now that is more like what we expected.

I could site so many examples of things that God has placed in my life that I would never have chosen. I think that anybody who has walked with God could do the same. But given time we can see the benefit and how it was truly just the gift that we needed.  “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.” (James 1:17 ESV)  This is a precious promise to stand on. Even when we remember that this verse is just a few verses down from the passage, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect that you may be perfect and complete lacking in nothing.” (James 1:2 – 4 ESV)  Complete and lacking nothing is a wonderful gift.

So rejoice, in the gift, the promise you will lack nothing and the giver.  And don’t run to the return line too quickly.  That gift that seemed inappropriate in the beginning may b just what you need somewhere down the road.

Angels! Angels! Angels!

I have a large nativity display that is placed to catch your eye when you enter my front door. The characters of the story are set. There’s not much that I can add to this scene each year.  I can add more animals and angels. I want to keep adding angels to create a ‘heavenly host’.  Some of my angels are cute and childlike in appearance. Others have a more regal bearing and are playing instruments. Some are even ornaments that I hang on the wall behind the nativity scene. The Christmas story tells us that the sky was filled with angels singing praises to the newborn babe.

 As I look at my nativity scene I consider the simplicity of that birth in a lonely cave in Bethlehem. The King of Kings, who is over the universe, came in quietness and poverty to become our Savior. The only fanfare that he received in Bethlehem that night was an announcement by the angels to shepherds watching their flocks.

And the angel said to them, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.  For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.  And this will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in swaddling cloths and lying in a manger.” (Luke 2: 10–12 ESV) Suddenly the angels were singing high praises to God. “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among those with whom he is pleased.” (Luke 2:14 ESV)  It is almost as if the shepherds were given a glimpse of  a praise party the angels were throwing. 

I find three primary purposes in Scripture for the presence of angels in the earth.

The first is the role of a messenger.  Angels appear with messages throughout the Old and New Testaments.  Some messages are announcements of births.  Examples of these are Abraham, (concerning Isaac)  Zachariah, (concerning John)  and both Mary and Joseph, (concerning Jesus).  Others, as with Lot, are the relaying of directions from the Lord.   As morning dawned, the angels urged Lot, saying, “Up! Take your wife and your two daughters who are here, lest you be swept away in the punishment of the city.”  (Genesis 19:15 ESV)  Still others are to bring encouragement, as in the case of Gideon.  And the angel of the Lord appeared to him and said to him, “The Lord is with you, O mighty man of valor.” (Judges 6:12 ESV)  Are you listening for a message God may have for you?

 The second role is as a worshiper of God almighty.  “All heaven will praise your great wonders, Lord; myriads of angels will praise you for your faithfulness.”  (Psalm 89:5 ESV)   And one cried to another and said, Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of hosts; the whole earth is full of His glory! (Isaiah 6:3 AMP) Then I looked, and I heard around the throne and the living creatures and the elders the voice of many angels, numbering myriads of myriads and thousands of thousands,  saying with a loud voice, “Worthy is the Lamb who was slain, to receive power and wealth and wisdom and might and honor and glory and blessing!” (Revelation 5:11-12 ESV) “And when he brought his supreme Son into the world, God said, “Let all of God’s angels worship him.”  (Hebrews 1:6 ESV)   These are only a few of the many examples that run through the Bible from Old Testament to New.  

 The third purpose we find in Scripture is to carry out God’s will.  Praise the Lord, you angels, you mighty ones who carry out his plans, listening for each of his commands. Yes, praise the Lord, you armies of angels who serve him and do his will! (Psalm 1003:20-21 ESV)   This can take many forms including protection “For he will order his angels to protect you wherever you go.” (Psalm 91:11 ESV)   Before entering the Promised Land the Lord told Moses, “Behold, I send an angel before you to guard you on the way and to bring you to the place that I have prepared. (Exodus 23:20 ESV)  Angels are obedient servants, waiting to be sent for God’s glory.

 The response of the shepherds to the announcement of the angels that night was to find out more.  When the angels disappeared, the shepherds said to each other, “Let’s go to Bethlehem! Let’s see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”  (Luke 2:15 ESV)  Our response to any of the work of angels in our lives should be the same.  Angels always point us back to Jesus Christ.  We may be receiving a message from the Father through them, joining in on their praise party, or experiencing the protection of their warfare .  Whatever the interaction may be, it should always lead us longingly back to the God we serve and the salvation He offers.

Happy Birthday To You, Jesus!

From the time our son was born, we have shared the tradition of having a birthday cake for Jesus every Christmas. Initially, this was the easiest way to show him why we were celebrating the day. When he was real young, we went all out with a banner and birthday party plates. We never wanted the giving and receiving of gifts to be the focal point of the day. We had read and discussed the Christmas story early in the morning, before opening our gifts. This was a time that we would take to again reflect on the birth of our Savior. We gather around the table late in the afternoon. Dinner has been put away and desserts are yet to come. We light one candle for the one true Savior and light of the world. The youngest child present blows out the candle after we have sung ‘Happy Birthday.’

Birthdays are a time to remember the day someone first came into the world. Birthdays are also a time to consider how that person has grown through the years. We plan a special day to honor the person and his/her life so far. This is also a day to wish him/her well in the upcoming year. We plan parties, cook favorite foods and set aside time with the honored guest. All in all, it is time to celebrate together with the person whose special day we are honoring. 

Over the years of planning parties for my son, we’ve done many special things. Sometimes we went to places with games and food. Other times we had friends over to our house. One of our favorites was ‘Trains, Cars and Jonathan’s 7^th Birthday.’  We took a train ride, ate at McDonalds and then had the kids back to our house to build the giant train track and town from the gifts that were opened.  (We had asked the children bring gifts that fit the theme.) It is a party he still remembers.

Thinking about the planning of other birthday parties, I wonder how much we truly plan for Jesus. At Christmas time we run about buying gifts for each other, cooking and baking all sorts of special foods and getting everything just right. Do we truly take time to consider the value of Jesus in our lives? As we read the Christmas story and talk about when Jesus came to earth as a baby, do we consider when he first came into our own lives? Do we celebrate Him more than the day?

So here are my thoughts on planning a true birthday party for Jesus. Our special menu would include what He considered His food. “My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to accomplish his work.” (John 4:34 ESV)  We can share in this meal by doing the will and the work of the Father who sent Jesus and now sends us.  When we joyfully do this we are ensured, “…the cheerful of heart has a continual feast.” (Proverbs 15:15 ESV) 
The gifts that we bring to this party will not be frankincense, gold and myrrh. They will be gifts of an attentive heart, a willing attitude and eager determination to follow His will. And the honoring at this party will be continual songs praise. “I will praise the Lord as long as I live; I will sing praises to my God while I have my being.” (Psalm 146:2 ESV)  The best part is that we will have the full attention of the guest of honor.

You see, my friend, this party doesn’t occur once a year. The celebration of the birth of Jesus is a continual feast with Him. It lasts all day, every day of our lives. So this Christmas, be sure to consider the Savior and wish Him a ‘Happy Birthday’.  Then, each day of your life, celebrate the purpose of His birth and the eternal life He has brought to you. It’s a party you won’t want to miss!  It’s also a party neither of you will ever forget!

Adding Beauty Piece By Piece

In a previous post (Go Where He Goes) I mentioned my Christmas village.  Twenty six years ago, on our first Christmas together, my husband gave me a Christmas village starter set that included a church, a school, a home and several accessories.  We began a tradition of adding to the village every year. Many years it has been an additional building. We’ve also collected several pieces that make up two wonderful parks. One surrounds a train station with a toy train that runs along an oval track. This park has a beautiful gazebo. The other park contains children playing, snowmen and a carnival style gallery.  It has been great fun putting the set together all these years.

Over the years, the village has changed quite a bit.  As we have moved into different homes and changed furniture, the surface we have used to ser the village has also changed.  At one point, we had roads running through the town.  When we moved the village to a narrower surface, the road no longer worked.  We took it out and increased the size of the parks, where there was ample room.  We currently place the majority of the buildings along a shelf that runs the length of our den. This feeds into our ski resort and parks.  It works for the space we have at this house.

In a way my life is a lot like this village. When I was first born again, God made some changes in my life and implanted a set of hopes and dreams. These were kind of like a starter kit.  “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”  (Jeremiah 29:11 ESV)  Along with these hopes and dreams, He gave me talents and abilities to live them out.  As I have studied God’s Word and walked with Him, He has added many other pieces to His plan for my life.  Some of the pieces have remained for all these years.  Other God-planted dreams have been for a season of my life.  They have come and gone as my life has changed. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:” (Ecclesiastes 3:1a ESV)

This year there was an urgency to add to the village before Christmas.  After several years of inattention to the glue, the library that was on a preset board fell and broke.  Suddenly there was a light bulb with no building to light.  After a search, we purchased a fire station to fill the void.  I had wanted a fire station for some time, but never found one that I liked.  This one is perfect for my village.  It perfectly fills that void.

Why do we seek God with the greatest urgency when something in our lives is broken?  Although we may appreciate His daily provision, we tend to run more quickly to Him when we have a need.  He has already made a way for us.  His plans are to make our lives full and beautiful.  “And I am convinced and sure of this very thing, that He Who began a good work in you will continue until the day of Jesus Christ [right up to the time of His return], developing [that good work] and perfecting and bringing it to full completion in you.” (Philippians 1:6 AMP)  He has started a very specific plan for each of us.  He will complete it piece by piece.  Sometimes it will be an obvious, significant addition.  Other times His additions to our lives will be small and subtle. 

What we find may not be exactly what has been lost.  Just as my library is being replaced by a fire station, God may open new doors in our lives and close others.  We just need to stay on His plan to see the beauty unfold.  Changes, additions and alterations are inevitable.  As we follow God’s ways, we will age with grace and beauty.  The pieces of our lives form the masterpiece He has planned.  “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” (Ephesians 2:10 NLT) 

I may find another library some day.  I may not.  Whatever is added to my village will increase its character and beauty.  Whatever God chooses to restore or replace in my life will also be of a value beyond compare.  The tapestry of my life will be full of character and beauty.

Beautiful Lights

A wonderful part of the Christmas season is all of the beautiful lights that decorate houses throughout many different neighborhoods. We enjoy driving around and seeing how each house has chosen to light up. You usually get a sense of where the best light displays are. Many cities even have areas that the homeowners all agree, and even contract, to decorate. These neighborhoods become areas that may have long lines of vehicles and walkers alike enjoying the beauty.

Nature has its own impressive display of lights that far exceeds the beauty of anything man-made. It is the aurora borealis, or Northern lights. Having never been to Alaska, or anywhere that far north, my personal experience consists of only watching videos taken of them. I have also spoken to people who have been blessed to see them for themselves. Breathtaking, amazing and beyond beautiful are some of the descriptions I have heard.  “They don’t seem real!”

As beautiful as these lights are, they cannot compare to what heaven must be like.  As I consider what Scripture says about the new heaven and the new earth, I wonder just what beauty awaits us.  Just what it will be like to take in all the sights and sounds and experience that amazing light? Here and now, I enjoy seeking the beauty in my everyday life and surroundings. But there are days I find myself longing the light that is yet to come.

As Christmas Eve approaches, we set aside time to consider the birth of Jesus Christ.  This year I have a new perspective of a promise of God.  ”Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.” (James 1:17 ESV) I always saw that as answers to prayers. But the greatest prayer need was answered before I even was born. Jesus, in the form of a human baby, is that perfect gift coming down from those gorgeous heavenly lights. He comes from God to bring us back to God.  The Father of lights sent us the very best. 

Not only is Jesus the gift that came from light, but He is the light. “Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”  (John 8:12 ESV)  God sent His son to be born in a lowly, Bethlehem stable.  He came in the darkness of that night to a world that was living in darkness. Through Him we have the light of life; life eternal. 

We can keep that beautiful light in our hearts by following Him day by day.  In doing so, we become more and more like Him.  “Those who look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed.” (Psalm 34:5 ESV)  Not only will we enjoy the benefits of his light, we will begin to shine that same light. We are to be a reflection of Him. We will be radiant!

Jesus told those who would follow Him, ^“In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16 ESV)  Our good works are like the light displays we drive around to see.  Do the houses of our lives draw people to see and give glory to our heavenly Father?  Are we lit up all year round? 

So, this year, as you admire the pretty Christmas lights, think of them as a dim shadow of the true heavenly lights. Consider the perfect gift that came down to a Bethlehem stable that night. And allow Him to fill you with His radiance, as your heart soaks in His presence in your own life.  How will you decorate your life this year?

Do Not Quit at Halftime!

This NFL season has been rough, containing many injuries.  Many teams have had players out for several games, needing to heal.  The Green Bay Packers have definitely seen their share of medical setbacks.  This has led to some heartbreaking losses for the team and fans alike.

In the past two games, the Packers have been significantly behind at halftime. During the game 10 days ago, we had other commitments and were unable to watch the second half. When we later heard the final score, we were amazed to find out the Packers had won. We then went back through the recording of the game to watch the plays that had led to victory.

Then, this past Sunday, score was even worse at halftime. The Packers were down 26 – 3. Not only was there a 23 point difference, all of their offensive efforts had yielded only one field goal. As the team left the field for the locker room at halftime, there did not seem to be much hope. My husband did not even want to watch the second half. Again the news came that the Packers have pulled it out in the last minute and a half. The final score was 37 - 36; Packers.  We again went back and watched the highlights, but I sure wish we had watched it play out live.

Have you ever felt that life circumstances are so overwhelming that there was no way out? Does it seem like the enemies of God are gaining ground, and your faith does not produce results? Do you consider quitting? You are not alone.

We have many promises in the Bible that we are on the winning team.  “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” (Romans 8:28 NLT)  God tells us that all things will work out for good.  He just does not tell us how long it will take or when that is going to occur. 

There are several occasions in the Bible when it appears that the enemies have won. After fleeing Egypt, the Israelites came up to a seemingly dead and at the Red Sea. But then the sea parted. (See Exodus 14)  The Philistine army, with their giant Goliath, seemed far stronger than the Israelite army. But David, a young man with a slingshot, won the battle. (See 1 Samuel 17) Elisha’s servant was terrified at the oncoming armies until his eyes were open to see the heavenly armies with chariots of fire that surrounded them. (See 2 Kings 6)  In any of these cases, stopping halfway through would have been disastrous. The victory was still ahead. The darkness of the current circumstances did not change the victorious plan that God had. In times of great trial hanging onto God and seeing it through is the only proper course of action.

The greatest example of the appearance of insurmountable loss is the death of our Savior, Jesus Christ. On that He was crucified, it looked as though the devil had killed Messiah and thwarted God’s plan.  I’m sure the hours that followed were heart wrenching. But after what seemed like a great defeat, came the greatest victory: the resurrection! This victory surpassed even want the people of that day hoped for and prayed for.  All things, even that horrible death of Jesus, worked together for our good.

In an interview on Monday with Coach McCarthy, the question was asked about the mood in the locker room at halftime. The reply was filled with such wisdom. Coach McCarthy stated that they had not spoken of the problems of the first half. They had gone back to the basics and reviewed what they needed to do. 

For the child of God this is also great wisdom. Return to the basics of what you know. “God loves me!” “I have been redeemed by the sacrifice of Jesus” “God will never leave me nor forsake me” “God has a plan for my life and He will see me to the end” Continue reciting the many truths and promises you have from God.  Go back to the play book, the Bible, and prepare for the next moves in your life.

After speaking about the righteous and the wicked, King David proclaimed, “I have been young and now am old, yet have I not seen the [uncompromisingly] righteous forsaken or their seed begging bread.”  (Psalm 37:25 AMP) In the midst of past struggles, I have felt as though this verse was mocking me. With a mountain of medical difficulties in the corresponding bills, groceries were often hard to come by. But now that I am older and looking back, I can see that we made it through. Some of those times were very difficult.  Other difficulties still affect our daily lives.  Yet we are still here. The Word of God is always true!

So today, regardless of what your circumstances look like, review the basics and get back in the game. Let me assure you, the second half is on its way!

Safe in the Perfect Fort

Watching as the snow falls outside, I ponder many childhood memories of past snowfalls. There are snow angels, snowmen, snowballs and those wonderful snow forts.  From the safety of a well-built snow fort you can build up an arsenal of white packed spheres and pummel your opponent with freshly made snowballs.  When they attempt to return fire, all you have to do is crouched behind the walls and you remain safe in your fort. 

The walls of our forts were not some thrown together buildup of snow. We carefully filled rectangular containers to form our bricks. The bricks were then layered in rows and build to a safe height. Not only was the structure sturdy and secure, but it looked quite intimidating as well. Here we could sit and plan our strategy. We could also pretend that we were in an igloo that was our home. The whole adventure was quite fun. 

Whether it is a cold snowy day in the park, a hot summer day in the backyard or a corner of the living room; children love to build forts. Forts come in all shapes and sizes. They can consist of a hard packed wall of snow, a tent, a tree house, or even a blanket draped over a card table. There is just something about that security of a tight, hidden spot, where the rest of the world is walled out. After a short time spent in the spot, returning to the big world seems just a bit less intimidating. 

Why do children like to play in forts so much? There are a number of reasons. First and foremost is the sense of security and safety the fort provides. But there’s a lot more to it. Forts are the most fun when shared with friends. Here, friends can share secrets. They can play and talk without anyone bothering them. But when the world seems cruel, that same fort can be a place to run to, to be alone and away from everything else.  It is a place one can call his/her own. 

I believe this desire for a fort is placed in our hearts by our Heavenly Father. He wants to be a hiding place and our impenetrable fortress.  He longs to be the one we run to. “Lord, you are my strength and fortress, should my refuge in the day of trouble.” (Jeremiah 16:19a NLT)  In the many verses on this topic, there was a frequent occurrence of four words.  Refuge, stronghold, fortress and high tower are often found together. Other similar words also describe our Heavenly Father as our protector. All describe a safety that calms fears when we simply trust.  “THE LORD is my Light and my Salvation—whom shall I fear or dread? The Lord is the Refuge and Stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1 AMP) 

I have always loved following passage. ^“HE WHO dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall remain stable and fixed under the shadow of the Almighty [Whose power no foe can withstand].  I will say of the Lord, He is my Refuge and my Fortress, my God; on Him I lean and rely, and in Him I [confidently] trust!” (Psalm 91:1-2 AMP) I can almost picture myself on the edge of a high cliff, shadowed by the massive presence God, God is quietly speaking with me. It’s a time of sharing those father/daughter kind of secrets. It’s always comforting, yet I know that scary things are going on all around us. I feel this way whenever I spend time alone with God. This, to me, carries the sense of two best friends sharing from the depths of their hearts in that safe place.  Only, one friend is much bigger and stronger. 

I remember watching as my young son invited his daddy into his small, makeshift fort. It had been an oversized table cloth draped over our kitchen table. My six-foot five husband had a difficult time maneuvering his way into that small space. But there was such a joy as my son shared that secret hiding place with his dad. Though I had been invited in at other times, I knew that there was an unseen sign stating, “Private!  Keep out.”  This was father/son time. 

So when is the last time you have run to that secret place with the Father? When is the last time you invited him into your space?  He waits every day to meet with you there.  Today, let your heart cry be this. “Be to me a rock of refuge in which to dwell, and a sheltering stronghold to which I may continually resort, which You have appointed to save me, for You are my Rock and my Fortress.” (Psalm 71:3 AMP)  Run to that safe place where you can talk, share secrets and even play for a while. It’s time for some Father/child time.

Don't Spill the Beans - Divy Them Up

One morning recently, I had set a pot of beans on very low heat to soak and simmer all day. After only 30 minutes the beans had absorbed much of the water and grown considerably in volume. If the entire amount of beans was left in that pot along with additional water, there was a good chance that the pot would overflow by the time I returned from work. I considered chancing it but decided to split the beans into two crock pots and add plenty of water to each. When I arrived home, it was apparent that I had made the right choice. Each pot was two thirds full. Had all the beans been left in one, it would have surely overflowed.

During the 30 minute period the beans were absorbing water, I had been challenged by a book I was reading concerning envy. The chapter addressed being envious of others who share the similar gifting and calling as you. Looking at the pot of beans that was soaking, I saw an illustration of this.  I laughed at my momentary consideration of leaving all the beans in one pot. There was very little value to that and very great risk. I simply wanted to hoard and keep all the beans in first pot, not giving any up to a second pot.  What is even funnier is that these pots were part of a three crock pot unit.  The unit was designed to share the load.

Likewise, a fleeting thought of envy or jealousy can lead to a wrong decision. Had I not responded quickly and split the beans I would’ve had a mess to clean. When we do not quickly recognize and respond properly to the temptation of jealousy there will be disastrous results.  It can harm the person of whom we are jealous.  It will most definitely harm us.  There is always a mess that follows envy.

It can be especially difficult to fight off envy when someone is experiencing more of something  you believe God has called you to. The desire we have to excel in that same area is from God. When He places abilities in and equips us for a particular task, he also places a longing in us to fulfill that call. How we react when we see someone else succeed is very important. We must keep our hearts and minds set on God and his plan for us. We must not only be willing to be content with what God has given us to do, but also willingly share with others whom He has called.  We can never focus on what he is doing in someone else’s life. Focusing on God’s intent for us will bring peace and joy.  “A calm and undisturbed mind and heart are the life and health of the body, but envy, jealousy, and wrath are like rottenness of the bones.”  (Proverbs 14:30 AMP) 

God has plenty of gifts and calls to go around. There is much work to be done for the kingdom. No person can do it solo.  God uses many people to do the same thing, “And His gifts were [varied; He Himself appointed and gave men to us] some to be apostles (special messengers), some prophets (inspired preachers and expounders), some evangelists (preachers of the Gospel, traveling missionaries), some pastors (shepherds of His flock) and teachers” (Ephesians 4:11 AMP)  This verse states that He calls some, not that He has called only one to any of these duties. And just like His ‘big’ ministry calls, many will be called to do similar things every day for the kingdom. We are each bound to find others who are also called to similar tasks as we are. 

As it turned out, there were plenty of beans for two meals. Each pot of beans soup could now be made with different types of broth and seasoning. This would be putting the unique flavor to each. Likewise, two people can operate in similar callings with their own unique personalities and mannerisms. Their unique flavors will appeal to different people. The value to the kingdom will be far greater with every believer supporting each other as they serve God. When one becomes seemingly more successful, it is important to remember, Rejoice with those who rejoice [sharing others’ joy], and weep with those who weep [sharing others’ grief].”(Romans 12:15AMP)  There may also be ample time to share in the grief or weeping this other person endures later in life. Knowing who we are in the Lord and trusting His plans for us will make both rejoicing and weeping with others a genuine and natural response. 

It’s kind of funny. I could actually be jealous of the woman who wrote the book that challenged me on this topic. She’s writing and selling great books that challenge and encourage many women. Here I am writing a story about two pots of beans. But in reality, I am so grateful for her faithfulness to write and teach as God leads. Though I may never meet her, I am blessed by her work. For now, I am content and will trust God to share something of His character through stories about my dogs, my coffee, my family and even two pots of beans.

Take Daddy's Hand!

While our children are small, we want them to hold onto our hand whenever we are out in public. The primary reason for this is safety. We do not want them to find themselves in a place of danger or harm. We do not want them to be separated from us. We want to protect and keep our beloved children close to our side.  We give our children directions to ‘Stay by my side!’ and ‘Hold my hand!’

Curiosity can be great when a small child is in a new and exciting environment. Simply wandering off can be due to simple inattention, not always disobedience or rebellion. When constant handholding was not practical, I attached to attach a leash to both my wrist and by young son’s. He was as fast as lightning. I could barely turn my head and he would be gone. This could be very dangerous when shopping.  The lease kept him close, yet gave him some freedom.

Once, when Jon was about three years old, we were at a very busy Do It Yourself store. As I stood in line near the exit, the two women behind me began discussing my choice for protecting my son. They did not even try to speak quietly, as they commented that a ‘child should never be leashed like a dog.’ I listened for a moment, before turning around and informing them that this little child ran far faster than I did. I told them, “Child abuse would be to put him in a situation where he could run out into traffic, before I could reach and stop him.”

Father God wants to hold our hands securely in his. He wants his close by his side at all times. “Come close to God, and God will come close to you.”  (James 4:8a NLT)  When the world outside seems a big and scary place we do not have to fear. Our father God has said, “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you.  Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you.  I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10 NLT)

Like I did for my son, our Heavenly Father will use whatever method necessary to keep us from getting too far from him. Others may not understand. They may consider us foolish for remaining tied to him. We may not even understand that we need to be tethered to God to prevent wandering too far away. We don’t always see the dangers that are very near those things that attract us. But God sees and protects in ways we may never realize.  He will give us some freedom, yet keep us safe. 

It can be quite frustrating when a child refuses to offer his hand. Repeated squirming and wiggling attempts to separate the little hand from the large safe hand can be a display of self-will and rebellion. Likewise, our self will can throw a spiritual tantrum. God continues to watch out for us, even when we are disobedient.  Speaking of the new covenant through Jesus Christ, the writer of Hebrews referred to the Israelites of old.  “This covenant will not be like the one I made with their ancestors when I took them by the hand and led them out of the land of Egypt.” (Hebrews 8:9a NLT)  They were rebellious to the leading of God’s servant, yet He took hold of them and led them out.

It is very encouraging what a young child willingly clings to a parent’s hand. This shows an awareness of the need to remain connected to the security and protection his parents bring. When we hear the Father say, ‘Take My hand,’ we should willingly obey.  The path ahead may be difficult, but His strength will be enough.  “Even there shall Your hand lead me, and Your right hand shall hold me.” (Psalm 139:10 AMP) It is pleasant to walk without a struggle.The greatest joy comes when the child reaches up to take your hand without having to be asked,  He not only knows of his need for you, but desires to be by your side.  When we approach God, it will bring joy to His heart if we come willingly and enthusiastically.  Take His hand today with a heart like the Psalmist.  “Nevertheless I am continually with You; You do hold my right hand.” (Psalm 73:23 AMP) 

There is great joy and peace, walking hand in hand with your Heavenly Father.  Take a walk today.

Before the Surprise

For my 14^th birthday, my mother planned a surprise party for me. Six weeks later, I would graduate from eighth-grade and my friends and I would be split between two high schools. She wanted this year’s birthday to be extra special and include all my good friends.  That was the plan. What led up to that night was far different than what she had expected.

During the two weeks prior to the party, I found myself doubting many of my friendships. I had always had a poor self-image. Although I had many friends, I never really accepted that they truly liked me as I was. I always felt that I was one step away, one wrong word away, from losing them all. So when I began to walk up to a group of these friends and the conversation abruptly ended or changed, I was sure it was because they did not want me around anymore. The first time this happened, I tried to explain it away. As this happened repeatedly, I began crying myself to sleep by the end of the two weeks. Not willing to admit this to anyone, even my parents, I suffered this heartbreak alone.

The night of my birthday finally came. My mother had told me that she and my grandmother were going to take me out to dinner to celebrate. When we arrived at my grandmother’s house, she asked me to take a bag of glass jars down to her basement before we left. I still remember feeling that even on my birthday, I had to work. When I reached the bottom step the lights came on and yells of “Surprise!” filled the room.  My knees went weak and I nearly dropped that bag of jars leaving broken glass on the floor.

The night proceeded with fun and laughter. I finally had the courage to share my fears with these friends. We laughed as we discussed how conversations had been about ride arrangements, gift ideas and the disappointment of the two guys who were unable to attend due to a wrestling meet. What I had perceived as rejection had, in fact, been preparation for a huge blessing. They had actually been trying their hardest to not give away the surprise. When I would walk up at an inopportune moment, they had feared that I would realize what was truly going on.

Looking at how things turned out in my life, I often see parallels. Not all things have been easy; in fact, many events have been quite difficult. I have found myself over the years asking God why he let me endure certain things. I have also found, from the other side of these trials, that all I endured was necessary for the full benefit of the blessing to come. It was my misperception of the circumstances and the hearts of my friends that caused far more pain than the circumstances themselves. It is a constant reminder to remember one of the attributes ascribed to true love, “Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person.” (1 Corinthians 13:7a AMP)   Think the best of others. 

Secrecy among my friends was critical to pull off the surprise party. God’s secrecy during difficult times is often critical to the character development He has planned for us.  That is when we can take total comfort in the promise of Jeremiah^,  “For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and peace and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome,” (Jeremiah 29:11 AMP) Even through tears, we can remind ourselves of this promise, “and we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28 ESV) 

Sometimes, we believe that we know the best way. That way would most likely be comfortable. Sometimes we are not happy with the fact that God is calling the shots. “But our God is in heaven; He does whatever He pleases.” (Psalm 115:3 AMP)  We can become frustrated when we remember the words the prophet Isaiah. ^”For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord.” (Isaiah 55:8 AMP) But we must never forget the next verse in that passage.  ”For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:9 AMP) The next verses go on to speak of many things that God does routinely that are way beyond our ability or even our comprehension. If we remember all of this, we can remain confident when our life circumstances are confusing, uncomfortable and beyond our control.

Are these things easy to do? In our own power they are impossible! But I have found two key steps by which I can, in the power provided by the Holy Spirit, remain fairly stable in the difficult times of my life. The first comes from Proverbs.  “Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all of your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV)  I truly know that he is wiser than I and always trustworthy.  I have also learned to, ”Rejoice in the Lord always [delight, gladden yourselves in Him]; again I say, Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4 AMP)   Even through tears, I can remind myself of how big God is and how great his love for me remains.  This will bring the feelings of joy I may lack in the moment.

Just like that surprise party followed a very difficult time for me, some of the greatest development in my character, or the blessings of others, have also followed difficult times. Sometimes, I have responded similarly to that 14-year-old who let emotions and misconceptions cause unnecessary pain. Other times, and more often recently, I have walked in greater trust. The difficulties are the same, but having joy and peace in the midst of them is beyond compare.

So when the times are roughest, remember to trust, love and praise.  The journey through the trials will be far more pleasant.  The end will always be God’s best for you!

Go Where He Goes

The Christmas season is here, and the house is decorated. Part of our decorating is putting up my Christmas village. On our very first Christmas together, David gave me a Victorian Village starter set that contained three buildings and some accessories. Each year since, we have added a piece or two to the collection.

Because some of our village set is placed a shelf that runs along the wall, we must rearrange our furniture. The couch that regularly sits against that wall is so tall that it hides part of the houses. So when we begin to decorate our den, the couch and loveseat trade places to leave an open view the entire village. The couch we have moved is where I spent a lot time. This is the couch I go to every morning to spend time with God. So when the couch moves, so do I. I also generally sit at the opposite end of the couch during this time. (I’m not sure why, but it’s been this way for years.)

This last week since the furniture has been moved, my dogs, particularly Kari, have not been coming to sit by me as usual. Most mornings, one or the other will climb up and cuddle next to me as I read and pray. Beamer has come around some, but Kari has been going over to the loveseat. This morning I changed position and sat on the opposite end of the couch.  (This is where I prefer to be when the den furniture is in its regular configuration.) I was able to coax Kari up next to me. As I sat there, I realized that for her everything had changed. The furniture had moved, and so had I. It is the same room Kari is accustomed to, but things are out of place. I am out of place and beckon her to my right side when she is familiar with my left. She has not readily adapted.

This makes me think about how we approach God. People pray, frequently asking God to move in their lives. We talk about mighty moves of God. We may even ask to see Him move in our current circumstances.  But are we willing to move with Him?  Are we willing to search for Him?

When I approach the Father, do I go to the last place I met with him? Do I become disconcerted, if things are not as have become familiar? Do I even become just a bit standoffish because things are not as they had been? I have to admit that sometimes I am a bit slow in changing with the seasons of my life. I sometimes feel as though I need to catch up with God. I have been trying to meet with Him where and how we have always met before.  I do not see that He has rearranged things to show the beauty of something new in my life.  When He moves, I must move with Him.

In the Bible God did things differently on different occasions. Moses was told to strike a rock one time to get water, but the next time he was only to speak to it. (See Exodus 17 and Numbers 20) There was a time that the Ark of the Covenant was in a tent that moved with the Israelites.  Later it was placed in the temple and the people came to it. The Samaritan Woman asked Jesus where it was proper to worship God.  Jesus’ reply surprised her, for it was not a place at all.  ^“ A time will come, however, indeed it is already here, when the true (genuine) worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and in truth (reality); for the Father is seeking just such people as these as His worshipers.” (John 4:23 AMP)

The religious leaders in the day of Jesus were looking for things as they had always been. Jesus came providing a new way to the Father. Many people did not like this. They wanted things as they had always been, the way they believed to be right. But those who held to the old missed out on the true work of God in the earth. They missed out on the salvation that Jesus offers us. They missed out on coming boldly before the throne of God, through Jesus. “Let us then fearlessly and confidently and boldly draw near to the throne of grace (the throne of God’s unmerited favor to us sinners), that we may receive mercy [for our failures] and find grace to help in good time for every need [appropriate help and well-timed help, coming just when we need it].”(Hebrews 4:16 AMP)

Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. (Isaiah 43:19 AMP) God has promised to do new things in our lives. This may entail new ways for us to meet with him, to hear him and to know him. This verse also says that we must perceive, or recognize, it.  I don’t ever want to get so comfortable in any aspect of my relationship with the Lord that I am unwilling to change my ways. I want to recognize when He moves and then rearrange my life, much like my den, when He rearranges my life. I do not ever want to continue to search the old when God is calling me toward the new.

 How about you? Are you ready to search for God when and where he is doing that new thing in your life? When God moves, will you also move?  His movement will always be to reveal the best for you.  Look for and draw near to Him.

Hide and Seek

Children love to play hide and seek. We can all probably remember the best hiding spot we ever found. I personally remember hiding in a hamper underneath a sweater. Although they had opened the hamper, they still didn’t find me. I waited until no one was around to climb out of my spot, in hopes of using it again in another game. My son’s favorite spot was in a kitchen set we once had. The table had a picnic bench seat with a storage compartment. He had climbed in there, and much to the frustration of his playmates, was never found. They had passed through the kitchen several times, checking the pantry and all lower cabinets. It had not occurred to them that the bench may open up, revealing the perfect hiding spot. And then there was the time the daughter of some friends crawled into a tiny cabinet. When the children could not find her, they enlisted the help of the parents. Even though we searched she remained unfound. As we began to panic, believing she was gone, she opened this tiny door and yelled, “Surprise!”

Most everybody can think back with fond memories to great times playing hide and seek. There is just something so fun about being able to fool the seeker. Hearing someone search all around and then move on to another room brings an exhilaration that you have made the cleverest choice. When the seeker returns, often with others to assist in the search, you hold your breath and hope that you can again evade detection. When finally found, or called out as being unable to find, you bask in the accolades of those who tell you what a good hider you are.

The Bible speaks about finding that perfect hiding place.  ^“You are a hiding place for me; You, Lord, preserve me from trouble, You surround me with songs and shouts of deliverance. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]!” (Psalm 32:7 AMP)  Yes, that perfect hiding place is God himself. We can run to Him in times of trouble. We can run to him in times of joy. We are told to live in that hiding place.  ^“ He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall remain stable and fixed under the shadow of the Almighty [Whose power no foe can withstand].  I will say of the Lord, He is my Refuge and my Fortress, my God; on Him I lean and rely, and in Him I [confidently] trust!” (Psalm 91:1-2 AMP) 

Dwelling in the secret place of the Most High is living a constant awareness of God in our everyday life. It means staying in constant communication with and obedience to Him. Then we are surrounded by God and totally enveloped by Him.  The enemies of this life cannot find us. Problems may abound and storms rage all around us. Hidden in the protection of the Lord, they cannot harm us.  We can wait in confidence for His deliverance from our trials. Another picture of this hiding place is, “For You have been my help, and in the shadow of Your wings will I rejoice.” (Psalm 63:7AMP) Can’t you just see those giant wings covering every inch of your body, as God tenderly pulls you to Himself? There is no way that trouble can find you there or pry you from those wings.

Hide and Seek may be a child’s game. It may be played for fun and the seeker is a friend not an enemy. But in real life, finding your hiding place in God is essential.  We will all face trials in life. Search for God and find that daily refuge in him. Search with all your heart, just as you intently looked for that great hiding place as a child. You will again feel the safety and exhilaration of knowing that problems will not find you there.

King David was no stranger to trouble seeking him. Yet he eloquently expressed an awareness of this principle in Psalm 3. ¹ LORD, HOW they are increased who trouble me! Many are they who rise up against me. ² Many are saying of me, There is no help for him in God. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]!  ³ But You, O Lord, are a shield for me, my glory, and the lifter of my head.  ⁴ With my voice I cry to the Lord, and He hears and answers me out of His holy hill. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]!  ⁵ I lay down and slept; I wakened again, for the Lord sustains me.  ⁶ I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people who have set themselves against me round about.  ⁷ Arise, O Lord; save me, O my God! For You have struck all my enemies on the cheek; You have broken the teeth of the ungodly.  ⁸ Salvation belongs to the Lord; May Your blessing be upon Your people. Selah [pause, and calmly think of that]! (Psalm 3 AMP)

Join the company of great hiders who knew when to seek refuge. You too can experience the peace of knowing that God sustains you. And you can rejoice! Receive the accolades of your Heavenly Father as He whispers to you of what a great hider you are.